Should people interfere in others business?? Is it OK or not!

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‌A  really annoying and irritating neighbor woman comes on a regular basis at your doorstep. You find each and every way possible to get out of her blabbers and raucous interference. 😓😓😓.However, she literally jumps in each and every task you perform. From the time you wake up till the time you go to bed . From how fast you have your shower to  how fast you manage to wash your clothes. What are you having for breakfast today???for lunch and obviously for dinner !!!

She immensely criticizes to your little petty mistakes and COMPLAINS your guardian as if you have performed a Blunder. She complains  not only your guardian but the whole society!!!And what happens if your neighbor complains your guardian??😳😳

As for instance you are dressing as a college student ready to go to your college and she literally hangs in their like a shadow and doesn't feel a bit of a shame to ask WHERE are you up to???🤨🤨

Like its insane to be interfered  each and every second with her silly and stupid comments. Everyone knows we ought to be heading to college in college dress.Where else are we supposed to go!!She can't be ignorant enough to not know where students go to study.  She acts  as if she is damn innocent asking  every hour(sometimes minutes as well)how you feel?🥴🥴🥴

It seems to her and the other members of the society that SHE IS REALLY TAKING CARE OF YOU AND SHE IS DAMN REALLY CONCERNED FOR YOU!!!But what you SEE is not what it is actually LIKE. Albeit she wants to know each and every secret of yours🧐🧐🧐 but she is not ready to share WHERE IS YOUR VILLAGE HOUSE???WOW!!!👏👏

That woman does really come up every EARLY morning just to remind us of the TIME. As if we don't have any  watches. If we get up early she has a problem why did you wake up early; and if you  wake up late she needs each and every detailed explanations. Who does that???🤷🤷

We literally don't need any CC cameras at our doorstep when there's THAT woman in charge of surveillance of each and every movement.She literally is a CC camera.

It becomes a sigh of relief when she goes to a vacation or somewhere else. You pray to your God for that particular moment of some silence and privacy.


We should provide people with their space for privacy. We should stop stalking people and respect their privacy.

If people in front of us really wants to share their experiences and opinions it's our responsibility to listen to them and give them genuine advises. If people In front of us don't really want to open up, it's really not OK to make them feel uncomfortable and self conscious and keep on forcing them to answer.

It's better to wish them luck and remind them that we are there for their support anytime.

If people becomes self conscious,they lose their self confidence and self-esteem. They become concerned about each and every thing they do. That makes them less efficient.

And above all,they start getting angry or irritated with petty matters. They start getting angry with the person who genuinely cares for them the most.That particular annoying activity affects the mental health of the person.


So people let's support each other by respecting their privacy. You can provide them with every help they ask of you. But there are limits. One should always be careful not to cross those limits. Otherwise, the healthy relations you have with your friends, family and relatives can get hampered.

Let's create a silent and suitable environment  not only for ourselves, but for each and every member of the society.

By Sanjita Napit

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